Protect Your Child From CyberBullying - Whether the bullying is direct or indirect, in person or over the internet, perpetrated by an individual or a group, one thing is consistent and that it is harmful to the target and the bully. Bullies who do not know or learn how to act with kindness and respect for others will always have flawed and dysfunctional relationships. Those who have been victimized and targeted for abuse are more likely to be depressed, to feel isolated, anxious, and to have low self-esteem. They are also more likely to think about suicide.
6 Ways Protect Your Child From CyberBullying Articles
|Ways Protect Your Child From CyberBullying|
Bullying Hurts Everyone
The world has always had bullies and now the internet has expanded the opportunities for teasing, taunting and harmful cyber-bullying online. Many parents are caught unaware that their children may be involved in either bullying or being bullied by so-called friends and associates.
Almost one in four children between the ages of 11 and 19 has been the victim of cyber bullying. Nearly 35% of kids have been threatened online and about 75% have visited a Web site bashing another student. These studies are researched based, but my own causal conversations with students in the halls and playgrounds at school show them to be true and maybe even a little low. It has become a scary world when one can be stalked, threatened and verbally bashed on a cell phone or computer. Once the images or words are out there, they are literally there forever.
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The psychological and emotional outcomes of cyber-bullying are similar to real-life bullying outcomes and can have serious aftereffects. As I interview experts and young adults about this problem it is very real and very damaging to self esteem, confidence and mental well being. Many of the students tell me they hate school because the teasing can start there. But then it can also go on all day, every day and everywhere.
Home Should be a Safe Place
Unfortunately, most parents and caregivers don’t know what to do about cyber bullying. This is new territory for parents who grew up and survived the playground politics. Many parents are so busy and so tired (see previous post on Too Tired to Parent) that they are missing the clues of a stressed out child.
Find out how to monitor your child’s use of the Internet and cell phones without making them feel embarrassed or overtly supervised. Create open communication and discover how to respond if your child initiates or receives threats.
Prevention Tips Suggested By Students
- Teach us how to deal with conflict.
- Monitor our use of the computer.
- Supervise but don’t snoop
- Don’t freak out if I tell you something in confidence.
- Ask me how I want you to handle it.
- Don’t blame or shame me for being a victim
You can protect your child from cyberbullying. You can give kids a sense of safety and security by teaching them how to set boundaries, how to judge if a problem is a big one that needs adult help or a small one they can work out themselves. As you work together to practice setting boundaries and speaking in an assertiveness voice, you will find more confidence in yourself and empathy for others.
You can do it. I have confidence in you.